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sex for pay

i am a 70 year old man and thinking about calling an escort service. i'm lonely and don't know if this is something that i should do.



A.

Response from Mr. Stewart


Dear friend,

Ask yourself what makes you lonely? What would make you feel not so alone?

Positive physical contact with another person can be life giving; and physical contact with another can leave a person feeling empty and alone........ Sexual intimacy can be healing or it can be destructive.....What makes one experience different from the other?

What would a paid relationship do for you in the long run?

Are you seeking a long term solution for lonliness or do you need a short fix? What's in it for you?

Peace and Good, Ken






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